The only way to change a sentence is with a new vocabulary.
Imprisoned by Words is a book about the invisible power of language—how it shapes our thoughts, relationships, and reality itself. Based on over 19,000 conversations, Jos Frederiks invites readers to become curious about the way they speak, listen, and make meaning in the world.
The Challenge
I used to speak without realizing the invisible cages I was building with my words.
In everyday moments, I noticed how subtle phrases could limit what I believed was possible—about myself, and about others.
The real challenge for me became this: to speak with more awareness, and to choose words that open instead of close.
The Process
I don’t pretend to have the answers—but I’ve learned to ask better questions.
What do I really mean? What am I avoiding?
In this book, I share the reflections, stories, and tools that helped me uncover the unconscious language patterns shaping my inner and outer world.
The Outcome
The more I paid attention to the language I used—and the stories I told—the more space I found.
Space for different perspectives, deeper understanding, and more honest connection.
It’s not about perfection. It’s about presence—being fully here in what I say, and how I listen.
The Impact
Imprisoned by Words changed how I speak—but more than that, it changed how I see others.
Whether I’m working with a client, a colleague, or a close friend, conscious communication always creates a shift.
Because once you see how language shapes reality, you can’t unsee it.
“The road to success is fully paved with obstacles well handled!”